The right approach for training your kitten

One of the most common training techniques is positive reinforcement training, which is reward-based training. For instance, if you’d like to teach your kitten to sit, hold a treat near their nose, move it towards their forehead (so that their nose goes up and hopefully their bottom goes down), then let them have the treat as soon as their bottom touches the ground. After enough repetition, you can add a verbal cue, such as ‘sit’, as they sit down and soon your kitten will be able to do the behaviour when you give the cue. You can use positive reinforcement to help with other aspects of your kitten's training, such as teaching them to stand still for grooming and getting used to travelling by car.

If you’re lucky, your kitten will be willing and eager to learn. However, there’s a chance you’ll be ignored. Every kitten is different, and training can be a test to your patience. Carve out small amounts of time each day to spend on training. If you have other cats in your home, remember that they each have different personalities and may find different things rewarding.

Be aware that cats do not understand or respond well to punishment. Punishment will stress your kitten out and cause them to run away and hide from you, which can also breed behavioural and health problems. Encouraging good behaviour with a reward is much more effective, and that reward can come in the form of a head scratch, play with a special toy and/or a tasty treat. This reward-based training teaches your kitten to associate good behaviour with positive results.

How to address unwanted behaviour in your cat

There could be several reasons why your cat is acting out. They could be stressed over a new change in your home, have a medical condition, or simply not understand that the behaviour is unwanted. While you may think that your cat is misbehaving because they’re upset or being spiteful towards you, this is usually not the case. We need to remember that what many people call ‘bad behaviour’, like scratching, is actually normal cat behaviour. We can’t – and shouldn’t want to – remove many of these behaviours because they are innate and important for good welfare.

Redirecting the behaviour instead of punishing is more likely to get your kitten back on track. Punishing them may make them feel threatened by you, which can ultimately lead to even more stress and bad habits, and may damage your bond. You can redirect them to things you’d like them to do. For instance, if they are scratching the settee, gently move them to a scratching post and reward them if they scratch that instead. Always remember to praise your kitten for good behaviours as well. Give a treat for a job well done, and they will learn to associate those actions with rewards.

If you have any suspicion that a kitten’s unwanted behaviour is due to a medical condition, always seek prompt veterinary advice. Young and small animals can become ill more quickly than adults.